Saturday, December 30, 2006

Wax Remover

Hello dumplings,
An Alert Reader told me that my link to the Illuminations website yielded no luck in the search for wax remover, so I found this one:

http://www.improvementscatalog.com/home/improvements/53770-Candle-Wax-Remover.html

I ordered something from this company about ten years ago and it was just dandy.

Good luck.

Waxily yours, PB

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Speak To Us of Jewelry

I just received this letter from a reader:

"Dear PeaceBang,

Speak to us of jewelery.

Are flaming chalice earrings ever okay? Pendants? (It always strikes me as a little like wearing the company logo and I think it's tacky).

What about the menfolk? Being from a Mediterranean background, I am prone to wearing crosses, fish, and/or a blue bead against the Evil Eye in my open-necked shirt. Displaying the ample hair on my chest, of course.

Will I become one of those sixtysomething guys with giant turquoise and silver pinky rings and necklaces from Santa Fe? In seminary, boys and girls wore big honking crosses over whatever they were wearing (sweaters, t-shirts, even shirt and tie) and I thought they looked ridiculous.
I think they were having a not-so-subliminal "mine is bigger than yours" contest.

Forever yours, ATFC"

Dear ATFC,

Sweetpea, if you want to ask about jewelry, first you have to spell it correctly. But I forgive you, for I know who you are and you can spell jewelry ANY WAY YOU WANT!
Also, I still have your book about discipleship (A Long Obedience In the Same Direction) and I've written all over it, so I totally owe you a fresh copy.

To address your inquiry:
Chalices can be a nice way to get a conversation going, as in "What's that symbol you're wearing?" leading to discussions about Unitarian Universalism and so on. But as I have written before that chalice earrings AND a chalice pendant is just overkill on the clergy. It's like, We get it! We get it! You are SO TOTALLY a Unitarian Universalist!!

On laypeople, au contraire, I find it a charming expression of associational loyalty. Call me inconsistent, but there it is.

PeaceBang is very fond of large pendants, but not Message Pendants. She does have one ginormous peace sign made of fake diamonds, but that's just ironic bling and she hopes no one thinks she is taking herself very seriously when she wears it. And she would *never* wear it in to a religious gathering.

Let's think together about pendants on men. Does any leader you know and respect wear big pendants? Does a large pendant put you immediately in mind of any particular era of United States sartorial history?

PeaceBang hates to say this, but she thinks that pendants on men are just queer, and not in the good way. A male religious leader wearing a big pendant says to PeaceBang, "Hi, everyone! My name is Theophilus and I'd like to welcome you to New Spirit in Christ Retreat Center for your Mary Magdalene Womynspirit Experience! Mine will be the last male face you see for the next 102 hours, so let me just give you some quick housekeeping information and I'll get my testosterone outta here!"

And then Theophilus would go gather the youth group for the trip to the organic farm. He brought his guitar for the bus ride, and he's going to sing "Where Have All the Flowers Gone" the whole way down. He's not a BAD guy at all, he's just a little bit caught in 1974.

All that said, PeaceBang thinks that green man pendants on Pagan men can be really hot. A green man pendant on a leather string. With an open shirt and a VEST. And leather pants. With long, flowing hair riding on a horse and ...

.. my goodness! Where was I before I got carried away with that little Renn Faire fantasy?

As far as specifically religious symbols go, PeaceBang has seen a lot of alarmingly large crosses adorning the bosoms and chests of seminarians on campus of late. She wonders if it might be the whole new religious leader phenomenon, where eager future clergy are so excited to be present in the world in a pastoral way that they look for the biggest cross they can find and stick it on their chest every day as a way of saying, "I am SO SUPER Christian, you can't believe it! I am SO SUPER Christian that I am actually studying for my master of divinity degree and may someday be an ordained minister! So go ahead: Ask me about Jesus! Ask me to pray with you! Test my knowledge of Bible verses! Yell at me for all the harm the Church has committed in the name of God over the past 2,000 years! I am READY! BRING IT ON! HERE AM I, LORD!"

PeaceBang has been given some very large crosses as gifts over the past years, and she really loves them and wears them when she's on vacation (they're really too much for a New England Unitarian setting). However, by "large," she means approximately 4" vertical and 2.5" horizontal -- not 8" high. Having seen crosses upwards of half a foot high lately, she feels it might be time to advise a bit of restraint in the cross department. Given that the vast majority of us will make extremely minor sacrifices in our ministerial lives compared to Jesus's ultimate sacrifice, it seems a bit misguided to don a Cross that some may regard as an attempt to compete in size with His.

In short, pigeons when it comes to Crosses, bigger is not better. Take it easy out there. The burdens of ministry are great enough without you throwing out your back dragging around a huge pendant of any kind. Religious is as religious does. You don't need enormous symbols on your person to convince people that you're on call for God. Just be on call, and that's enough.

And ATFC, mon chere, NO HAIRY CHESTS WITH OVERTLY OPEN SHIRT. Remember the commandment from Leviticus: Let he who is hirsute adorn himself with modesty and keep all but that top button done up. Hairy chestedness is to men what cleavage is to women: neither one need be ostentatiously shared with the public.
And if I ever see you wearing a chalice earring, you can kiss that earlobe goodbye, because I'll quick as a flash bite it off.

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Thursday, December 28, 2006

Trashtastic Books

Get the smelling salts! PeaceBang has lost her senses!! She has just this evening purchased a book called


FABULOSITY: WHAT IT IS AND HOW TO GET IT

by Kimora Lee Simmons, whose claim to fame is, if PeaceBang's memory services, marrying a very rich hip hop mogul and launching her own cosmetics line. This promises to be a very, very guilty pleasure kind of like scratching at a scab. You know it's bad for you, but it feels so good.

Anyway, this is the sort of sword PeaceBang chooses to fall upon occasionally in order to glean fun and unusual tips for you while you're busy reading the complete works of Augustine. She just loves you that much.

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Tuesday, December 26, 2006

Bouncin' And Behavin' Hair

Remember when I said that I hoped Jesus would bring me fluffier hair for Christmas?

Well, he did! It came in the form of Kiehl's Super Thick Volumizer, which I had in my bathroom way on the back shelf and pulled out again the other day, with excellent results. I am VERY overdue for a haircut and everything is dragging, but this product -- sprayed onto my hand and then run through my roots while I've got my head upside down -- helped a lot.

I learned the hard way that if you use TIGI "Cocky" Hair Thickener, it gets very greasy at the bottom of the tube and will weigh your hair down and make it very oily. Don't make my tragic mistake, PeaceBangers! If you use TIGI Cocky, toss it out when the product is almost gone.

You can get the volumizer at the finer cosmetics ateliers and on line at kiehls.com.

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Clothing and History

Happy Boxing Day, Sweet People!

PeaceBang is on her way to visit family, imagining herself all dolled up in furs and riding on a troika (or do you ride IN a troika? Or does one simply "ride a troika?") to deliver gifties to her kinfolk honeylambs. You and I know that she'll be in jeans and a knit cap and driving a Honda CR-V, but PeaceBang likes to have some Romance in her life, so please don't ruin the fun.

Speaking of fun -- PeaceBang's Favorite Male Product Tester got her Caroline Weber's marvelous new book, Queen of Fashion: What Marie Antoinette Wore To the Revolution for Christmas and she's already many pages into it and adoring the mix of feminist history, fashion commentary, and psychology. Great stuff, well-researched, fully deserving of all the fantastic reviews that came out earlier this year.

Queen of Fashion

In all seriousness, this book is an important study of the relevance of clothing, and the ways that public people can use their attire to project messages about who they are, who they are not, and how they inhabit their social roles. A definite must-read for fans of this blog.

Meanwhile, PeaceBang got a run in her stocking on Christmas Eve, and then spilled some dinner on her skirt. She was ne'er so grateful for vestments as she was during the second Christmas Eve service.

P.S. You can purchase a wonderful candle wax remover at Illuminations.com. PeaceBang swears by it, and it's safe for all your most treasured holiday garments and altar adornments.

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Monday, December 25, 2006

Merry Christmas, Darlings


angel gabriel
Originally uploaded by Peacebang.
The Angel Gabriel is looking a little bit pensive here. I wonder why?

Perhaps he is feeling a wee bit envious that although he can pronounce, it is we incarnate beings who get to respond. Although he can bring glad tidings, it is we who live out those tidings in visible, tangible ways.

Or perhaps he is just thinking how nice it would be if he could just once go shoe-shopping.

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